{"id":24839,"date":"2020-12-15T20:18:48","date_gmt":"2020-12-15T19:18:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.frankfurt-school.de\/?p=24839"},"modified":"2023-11-28T12:41:59","modified_gmt":"2023-11-28T11:41:59","slug":"become-the-best-version-of-yourself-that-you-can-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.frankfurt-school.de\/de\/become-the-best-version-of-yourself-that-you-can-be\/","title":{"rendered":"Become the Best Version of Yourself that You Can Be"},"content":{"rendered":"

As I look out over this new MBA<\/a> class, do you know what I see? Imposters. Two hundred imposters wondering if you should be here. But what is amazing is that is exactly why all of you do, in fact, belong. Even though you felt like an imposter, you came anyways, because you believed in yourself enough to invest in your own education.<\/p>\n

Not an imposter, but a masterpiece in progress<\/strong><\/h2>\n

In my favorite podcast \u201cHow I built this,\u201d Guy Raz interviews start-up founders. The episodes always start with a devastating moment when the founder had failed: out of money, rejected, a friendship ruined. You realize that inevitable success was never certain. They were just too stubborn to give up. Every Single Time. They failed. They were imposter CEOs. But that didn\u2019t stop them. They changed the world: Airbnb, Netflix, Lyft, Wikipedia, Khan Academy.<\/p>\n

Consider this quote from Raz: \u201cTake a look around you right now. At the seat you\u2019re sitting on. The light bulbs illuminating the space you\u2019re in. Even the cover of this book you\u2019re reading. If these items have anything in common, it is that none of them looked like they do now when they were first conceived by the people who designed them. A lot happens between conception and first production. Shape changes. Materials change. Offerings changes. Names change.\u201d<\/p>\n

You are not the finished version of yourself. It is time to stop thinking of yourself as an imposter and instead see a masterpiece in progress. You are becoming the best version of yourself that you can be.<\/p>\n

Time is your greatest asset \u2013 Use it to remold your professional self<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Many of you may think that your investment in your education was tuition payments and foregone salaries, but your most important investment just began. Time is your greatest asset \u2013 it is your primer for remodeling the masterpiece of your professional self. My husband told me at the outset of my program, \u201cHoney, this is your year. We\u2019ve given up a lot for this, take every opportunity they give you.\u201d I followed his advice, and I feel like I acquired 10 years of professional experience in a single year. I emerged a confident leader, an astute businesswoman, and a proud alumnus. I am the best version of myself that I have ever been.<\/p>\n

Now it is your turn. Here is my advice:<\/p>\n

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  1. Practice telling your story.<\/strong> Look up \u201ctell me about yourself videos\u201d and then practice by videoing yourself. I did it 12 times before I was satisfied.<\/li>\n
  2. When you can\u2019t read, listen.<\/strong> Professors will give you the best of the best, but it will be too much for you, so get audio books. Listen while driving, cooking, or in the gym. Books transform your thinking and give you tidbits to share in networking opportunities.<\/li>\n
  3. Be the most prepared for every group meeting<\/strong>. Raise the bar for yourself on this. Compete for who is the most ready. Get into this habit now and you will move up faster in the ranks than you ever expected.<\/li>\n
  4. Study your way to a strong network<\/strong>. Block out 15 minutes before every first meeting to just learn about who you\u2019ll be meeting with. You\u2019re at a new level now, and that means paying attention to people more than projects.<\/li>\n
  5. Accept that you are going to fail, but fail fast. <\/strong>We have all failed and will fail again soon. Write down your every failure. Make it exhaustive. Then cross them out, one by one, and write, \u201cThank you for not giving up.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    What will you commit to do? Write it down and get started.<\/p>\n

    When you raise the bar for yourself, you raise it for us all <\/strong><\/h2>\n

    Remember, you will carry the Frankfurt School with you for the rest of your professional journey. It is always going to be there on your resume \u2013 the school where you got your MBA<\/a>. When you raise the bar this year, when you graduate smarter, more confident, and better equipped to become world-changing leaders and entrepreneurs, you affect everyone who graduated before you. As you become the best version of yourselves, you will also make the Frankfurt School of Finance and Management the best version of itself that it has ever been. And that, my friends, is something to be proud of.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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